Showing posts with label anger. Show all posts
Showing posts with label anger. Show all posts

Monday, June 8, 2009

Summer Brings Unique Sources of Doubt and Anger

Each season brings its own opportunity for women to experience feelings of self-doubt and sadness. Spring is a beautiful time for renewal, but what if you feel stuck in the same rut? Winter brings those holidays which may include time with family that conjures up painful feelings from childhood or maybe some lonely nights when it seems the rest of the world is out celebrating. As summer approaches and the heat steps up here in California, I am reminded of some other issues through which I have helped my clients navigate.

Body image is a major issue for women this time of year. We are all wearing less in an effort to stay cool and every exposed flaw is under daily scrutiny in front of our bedroom mirrors. You don’t need an expert to tell you that
self-image is one of the biggest obstacles that women face in working towards a happy life. Higher temperatures also have a tendency to promote angry tempers. We are more easily irritated with ourselves and other when the air conditioners and even the coldest of swimming pools are not enough to keep us calm. If you know that the summer tends to bring heightened dislike of our physical self and screaming outbursts over the smallest annoyances, are there steps you can take now to preempt these unpleasant emotions? Absolutely.

There are
simple relaxation techniques you can learn that will release your mind from negative thoughts and instead reveal a whole new life that is waiting for you. When you are filled with self-love and inner beauty, you will be amazed at how different every day will be. Through my new book, The Anja Technique that comes along with a CD, you can seek and find this new life from the comfort of your home. Make this summer the one that is finally filled with sun, warmth, and peace.

Saturday, June 6, 2009

Anger Affects the Mind, Body, and Soul

You can feel your blood pressure rising when someone cuts you off in traffic. You lie awake at night thinking about all of the ways a particular co-worker has ruined your chances for a promotion. You cannot forgive your parents for the cruel words that were repeatedly spoken to you as a child. It seems like very little is needed to set off your temper or bring feelings of resentment to the surface. If these sentiments sound familiar, then you are obviously living with a great deal of anger and I imagine that this strong emotion is having a negative impact on your life. While anger certainly is a normal human reaction and completely repressing such honest expression is unhealthy for your mental and physical health, allowing anger to dominate your existence can be even more dangerous.

How can anger translate into physical problems? A study performed at Berkeley found that forty percent of people who experienced a stroke had felt angry or been through an upsetting event within two hours before the life-threatening moment. Another study, this one done at the University of Ohio, discovered that men and women who have trouble controlling their anger take longer to heal from even the most minor of wounds. Research completed at Yale University concluded that anger can trigger potentially deadly heart rhythms. There are countless other examples of ways in which anger manifests itself physically. Teeth clenching, rashes, indigestion, severe headaches and many other maladies all can be triggered by episodes of unchecked anger. I imagine that if you suffer from anger issues, you can add to this list based on your own experiences.

Beyond compromising your physical health, which should never be minimized, chronic or cyclical anger also decreases the quality of your day-to-day life. People who are focused on the problems and pain in their lives cannot open the door to the wonderful alternative of happiness and a peace of mind. Instead of noticing the opportunities for joy, those who live in anger are left needing to find ways that they can numb the painful feelings through drinking, drug use, or overeating. Depression, eating disorders, and insomnia are also common side effects of those who have not found productive ways to deal with their uncontrolled anger. This is no way to be living your life!

Are you ready to release yourself from the anger that currently controls you and find a new way to live? You need to know that a new and enlightened existence awaits you, and it is easier to achieve than you may think. Clinical hypnotherapy is a safe and effective method for pinpointing the true source of your anger and breaking the powerful cycle that it has over the quality of your life. With a trained professional, you can learn relaxation techniques that will unlock your unconscious mind and retrain your thought patterns so that anger no longer rules how you choose to respond to a situation. You finally will experience true love for yourself and the forgiveness and processing mechanisms that will allow you to love others. Choose to take this first move in a journey that will allow you to embrace each day instead of fighting at every step.


Contact me and see what program might help your anger issues and learn to relax.
shayn@anjawellness.com

Monday, January 19, 2009

The Anja Technique Awakens the Love Within



"You can explore the Universe looking for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and you will not find that person anywhere." Quote from The Anja Technique

In the spirit of love - My newest book The Anja Technique - is now available for purchase. This book has been like my child for the past two years. I have nurtured and protected my child, been patient with my child and given all to my child with unconditional love. I have stayed in the moment of love for my child and now - I give the world to my child and the child to the world.

This comprehensive and powerful 5 step process will help you to overcome obstacles of guilt, inner conflict and fear, and many others. What as been holding you back from loving yourself? Now is the time to transform your life into one of love and self acceptance. Awaken to the love within yourself today!

To purchase this book, visit:

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http://www.theanjatechnique.com/

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Take a moment to view the beautiful book trailer created by Eppie winner Kim McDougall: http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=1079585703563